Erica Mena is previous, believing she and Safaree Samuels will ever be. That a lot is “apparent,” the Love & Hip Hop star mentioned on the Atlanta reunion present, which aired on Monday. However she additionally shared how little she believes Safaree cared for her throughout being pregnant.
“I used to be within the hospital mattress with this man’s son. That man didn’t care if I made it by way of that being pregnant, that man didn’t care if I made it by way of that labor,” Mena mentioned.
A decide signed off on their divorce in September after Erica filed in Could 2021. Safaree pays $4,305 in baby assist. Safaree and Erica share joint, authorized custody of their daughter Safire and son Legend. Getting again to single standing has been rocky for the ex-couple with on-line exchanges and accusations.
As Erica shared her expertise, seemingly holding again tears, she defined doing motherhood alone for a second time.
“Like I needed to drag myself out of that darkish place. With my first son, as a result of I needed to hustle a lot, I sacrificed a lot time away from my firstborn that I’m nonetheless attempting to make it as much as today,” Erica mentioned. “And that is stuff that I’ve confessed and been susceptible with to him about that’s why it’s bizarre that he is aware of the traumatic expertise of being a single mom as soon as, after which he turns round and makes me a single mom twice.”
Earlier than Erica defined her ache, the host did ask Safaree if he was in any ache seeing the clips of their marriage dissolving and listening to Erica communicate.
“You recognize I all the time attempt to purposely numb myself from all the things in order that I don’t really feel ache. You recognize, I inform myself I don’t care, in order that I can actually consider it, however there’s ache,” Safaree mentioned.
Erica Says Their Kids Is Her Focus Now
Mena says she’s past anticipating accountability from Safaree. In her phrases, he doesn’t “owe [her] nothing” however owes their youngsters, and that’s all she says she cares about.
Nothing is precisely what Safaree was giving at first till a number of castmates stepped in. The reunion host and castmate Lil Scrappy urged him to “come on,” however Safaree appeared reluctant. One other castmate Shekinah Anderson chimed in, saying, “develop up,” to which Safaree responded, “shut the f**ok up.” Anderson shot again, “you possibly can cuss me out, I’m cool with it.”
Once more, Scrappy urged him to “communicate bro” as a result of there’s “any person on the market like [him.]” Safaree responded, “I don’t even know easy methods to begin.” Shekinah urged him once more, then Kirk Frost additionally inspired him to share his expertise.
Safaree Apologizes For Leaving After Their Son’s Start
The daddy of two responded:
“Who needs to get married, have youngsters, after which find yourself right here? I wouldn’t have thought two years later, that is the place we’d’ve been. We had been simply at a spot of who might damage who probably the most, and we had been there for a very long time. It sucks. Undoubtedly sorry for the time our son was born, and I left every week later.”
Erica interrupted, saying it was “days,” not weeks after Legend’s start, that Safaree left. As Erica continued to interrupt, each the host and castmates, like Bambi, tried to clarify that he won’t really feel secure sufficient to talk. Safaree’s last phrase was that he hopes their relationship will get higher.